Engagement 2/24

about 2 months ago, I received a passive aggressive note from my roommates that anonymously texted in our roommate group chat: “whoever had people over this weekend needs to clean up their mess. I would clean it myself but I’m tired from being kept up all weekend from the noise.” It wasn’t hard to figure out the note was directed towards me as I was the host a tailgate that weekend in our apartment and the person that wrote the note wouldn’t talk to me at the time. I’m not sure how passive-aggressive the silence approach is perceived to be but none the less it didn’t bother me. I’ve always been the type to respond to direct interaction. If I wish for something to be done I tell the person outright what I wish to have happen.